The pro-life community mourns the loss of Lila Harmsen, a dedicated advocate who passed away on July 31, 2023. Known for her unwavering commitment to saving lives, Lila spent decades advocating for the unborn and their families in cities like Fargo, Jamestown, and Grand Forks, North Dakota. Her efforts extended beyond advocacy; she was also engaged in jail ministry in her hometown of Valley City.
Lila’s journey into pro-life activism began at a young age. She learned about abortion when she was only eight years old, a revelation that deeply affected her. Driven by a desire to spare others from the heartache associated with abortion, she devoted her life to spreading love and support. Meeting Lila in her late 70s, one could sense her profound impact on those around her. Despite her unassuming demeanor, her powerful words resonated with a strength that could not be ignored.
Decades of Advocacy and Impact
Throughout her years of service, Lila was instrumental in saving numerous lives. Her approach was characterized by a warm and welcoming presence, drawing in those who were vulnerable and frightened. Her efforts often led to life-changing moments. In March 2022, she reflected on her experiences, emphasizing the value of every child. She poignantly stated, “If the children slated for abortion could speak, they’d beg to live.”
During her time on the sidewalks outside abortion facilities, Lila witnessed the painful realities faced by many women. She often reminded them of the permanence of their decisions. “You can’t come back for your baby next week. It’s over. It’s a very decisive thing,” she would say, highlighting the emotional turmoil that many experience after an abortion. Her message resonated deeply, underscoring the need for compassion and understanding.
The loss of Lila is felt profoundly within the community. Just a week after her passing, reports emerged of abortion escorts celebrating her death. Yet, the impact of Lila’s life and work continues to inspire those she leaves behind. Her unwavering commitment to her cause and the love she shared will endure, fostering hope and courage in others.
A Legacy of Love and Compassion
Lila’s dedication extended beyond mere advocacy; it was a calling. She often recounted stories of hope, including when she and a fellow advocate guided a pregnant woman to the Women’s Care Center after she canceled her abortion appointment. “I couldn’t do it!” the woman declared, a moment that brought tears of joy to Lila’s eyes as she later held the baby that had been saved.
In her heartfelt reflections, Lila expressed the pain she felt for the children lost to abortion and the mothers who would carry that grief. “My heart breaks when I think of the loss of these children and the pain that the mother will undoubtedly endure when she realizes her baby is gone,” she lamented. Her belief that “God created them for life, not for us to destroy them” served as a guiding principle throughout her advocacy.
As the pro-life community remembers Lila Harmsen, her legacy is encapsulated in the words of St. Paul: “Well done, good and faithful servant.” Her life was a testament to the profound impact one individual can have when driven by love, compassion, and a commitment to protecting the most vulnerable in society.
